Bachelor in Paradise...Yikes.

Well. THAT'S not good. 

I'm going to include all the stories I (shamefully) read yesterday about what happened with everyone's favorite guilty pleasure spinoff, Bachelor in Paradise. The story definitely evolved over the course of the day from being about a producer suing Warner Brothers to a contestant suing WB. DeMario and Corinne's names were also both originally used, then the articles started redacting the Corinne's name because it now looks like Corinne is suing the production company as well. 

So. Read up and draw your own conclusions. For whatever it's worth, I think we can all conclude that even if this situation turns out to be innocent, Rachel was right to give DeMario the boot. This guy can't stay out of the scandalous spotlight. 

First this came out: http://perezhilton.com/2017-06-11-bachelor-in-paradise-corinne-olympios-demario-jackson-production-halted-filming-cancelled-reality-tv-drama#.WT30vOJOmEc

Then there's a TMZ article about it that I'm not going to link because it's gross and describes a lot of things that I don't want to know, so Google it if you're interested. 

And then this rounded out the day: http://people.com/tv/bachelor-in-paradise-demario-jackson-sexual-encounter/?utm_campaign=peoplemag&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&xid=socialflow_facebook_peoplemag

What's gross to me is that producers have a protocol in place to step in if things get too drunk/out of control. WHY DO WE WATCH THIS SHOW, PEOPLE?? We are all trashboxes. I'm gonna go read my Bible. 

Will You Accept This Podcast? Episode 2.

BOY DID WE HAVE LOTS TO SAY ABOUT THIS. 

...and what our first lines out of the limo would be if we were Bachelor contestants. 

...and "Alien: Covenant." 

...and Jordan's predictions for DeMario's future as the show's sneaky trickster. 

...and whether AJ is actually a serial organ harvester. 

...and defending clowns. 

Whew. Just take a listen for yourself. 

Here's the photo Wes mentions in the podcast. And he's right. That top is exceedingly low: 

Will You Accept This Podcast?

My sainted husband told me he'd do this with me. I love him. He had to go to bed halfway through it, but it still counts. 

Wanna listen to these two idiots talk about this show? 

Cool. Click here: 

I'm Sorry. I Can't. Don't Hate Me.

With those fateful words, Jack Berger broke up with Carrie Bradshaw, and I am breaking up with recapping The Bachelor. 

UGH, I KNOW, I AM SO CONFLICTED ABOUT THIS CHOICE, Y'ALL. It's horrible. Do you still like me?! 

Here's the deal: normally, after a season finishes in the spring, we get a nice little break with the nonsense that is Bachelor in Paradise before the next real season starts up in the fall. But Chris Harrison is a thirsty little rat and he just can't STAND to wait for the publicity he's going to get by having the first Black bachelorette, so he's moving this train right along. 

Which makes it a challenge for those of us who re-cap to keep up. 

Jordan and I have just got so much going on this summer (more about that soon) that getting up at 4:30 AM on Tuesday mornings to screengrab the show isn't feasible. (Do you feel sorry for me? You shouldn't because I totally did it to myself. ...okay maybe a little sorry.)

Now - this doesn't mean I won't be watching. I will be watching every single second. I'm playing in a fantasy league. And, if I can swing it, I'll be roping Jordan into a 30-minute weekly podcast recapping the episode. (Would you listen to that, by the way? On Tuesday mornings?) 

So it has nothing to do with the show itself and everything to do with the amount of time I've got to devote to it. I think this season is probably going to be particularly star-studded and out of control since they've been promo-ing the HELL out of Rachel since the moment they decided she was taking this gig. 

I hope she doesn't turn into a monster. Please, Rachel, WE LOVE YOU!!! Also, did she close the gap in her teeth?! I'm going to be really sad if so. It looks like yes. But I loved the gap! 

So, anyway. There's my Friday confession. I was nervous about telling you guys, but I knew it had to be done before the season started, so there it is. 

I'm all,

And you're probably all, 

I love you people. See ya Monday. 

The Bachelor: FINALE.

WHAT IS EVEN GONNA HAPPEN 

• Chris Harrison gets a round of applause that really fires him up. He's like READY TO GO, you guys. 

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• Yeah I BET you do, you smug bastard. 

• Yeah, okay, Chris. 
• Remember Ben Higgins' preacher "thinking about" whether he was going to "marry Ben and Lauren B." on camera? Yeah, me too. I stayed up late for that, Chris. Come on. 

#neverforget

• Chris is so ready for Rachel's season to start. He can smell the ratings from months away. 

Let's get cracking: 

Meeting the Families

Raven:

• Nick skipping with those Christmas children behind him will be the highlight of this episode. 

• Also is Nick's mom ever NOT crying? 
• "His family has to be so embarrassed of him." - my husband, pretending not to watch this with me. 
• Raven shows up. I am so #teamRaven it hurts my hair. 
• Then ABC uses Nick's little sister to get ratings.

• Seriously though using this child as a tool on reality TV is low. But also, expected! Because this is all terrible!
• She talks to both parents and totally charms them.

• Mom Viallis STILL CRYING. Lock it up. 
• Raven leaves. Slam dunk. 

• HAHAHAHAHA oh yeah. I'll bet he was.
• He had lots of other people beating down his door, so it's understandable that he'd be hesitant. 
• Who would hire him, lest he be seen working for them? 
• Jordan wouldn't even take this guy as a dental patient. 
• Anyway, Raven is predictably charming and adorable and the little sister loves her so much. 

Vanessa:

• SHADE.
• Vanessa shows up in...an off-the shoulder top and cargo pants? To meet the parents?? Girl, come ahhhhhhhn. That's not what you wear! 

• She's not coming off as super likable. 

• Vanessa and Nick's dad share a teary moment that seems genuine on his part and...I don't know. I guess genuine on her pare. She just BUGS, you guys. 
• Gross to me that this small child is still here being subjected to reality garbage. This show should be rated R just to keep children out of the room while we watch it. 

• I say again: how did he get so tall?? 
• Sorry, are all these people his siblings? Like, all of them? I feel like I keep seeing a new one every few minutes. How does this happen? 

• That sister is really over how much her mom cries. "It was tough," she interjects. Impatiently. I get it.  
• Well now we know where Nick gets the weepiness. 
• Let's see how he fares on the one-on-ones. 

NESSY. 

• I've never actually seen horseback riding in the snow. Serious note here, Finland is gorg. I want to go to there. 

• Oh, SHIT.
• SANTA IS HIDING IN THE WOODS. 
• NOPE. 
• NOPE. 
• I have NEVER been scared of Santa in my life until this moment. 
• Not gonna lie, I just Googled, "Do horses feel cold?" 
• They do but they're all set, guys. Don't worry. It's not inhumane for them to be out there. 
• You're welcome. 
• Stop it right now. Is Santa about to open this door? 

• NO WAY 

• Santa talks to these two kids about what they want for Christmas. 
• Just sayin', they at least could've gotten a guy with a real beard. How low budg can you be, ABC?

• Santa produces them a woodburned carving that represents happiness and fertility. So there's that. 

• And then they set it on fire. (just kidding but it really does look like that) 
• Nick essentially tells her that she's exactly like everyone he's always dated, which, surprisingly, isn't what she wants to hear! So she starts crying. Or maybe she's just crying because her hands are freezing while Nick's hands are toasty warm in some leather gloves. 

• Gosh wouldn't it be great if she was just like, "This show is stupid and I'm out." Right? Amaze. 
• Later on the "date" date...

• I am totally distracted by her eyelashes. I almost can't focus on anything they're saying. 
• Basically she's asking for affirmation but she's not grasping that this is a dating game show. 

• I don't like him but he's dropping some truth bombs. 

• At least vanessa fits right into the family in terms of weepiness. 
• Raven has cried exactly twice: her dad had cancer, and saying, "I love you" for the first time. 
• ...legit reasons. 

HOXIE

• She's just so happy and free and upbeat! 
• Vanessa is reeeeeeeal serious. 
• "My love," he calls her!! 
• Chances that I would skate on a frozen lake: probably 0. 
• They just have a lot of fun together. How could you not love Raven?? 

• What is up with his penchant for laying her down in the middle of a watery hell to make out? Like SHE DID HER HAIR, GUY. Have some respect. 
• I just really like her so much. 
• WHAT HUSKY PUPPIES?!?!?! 

• Mine too, Raven. Mine. Too. 
• Somebody get Neil Lane out here. This show is over.
• Y'all this is gonna  hurt so much if he dumps her.  

• Confession: I thought Raven was unintelligent and maybe even a lil' trashy. And I am eating my words. I think she's adorable and precious and kind and great. 
• He can actually talk to Raven about feelings. Vanessa basically forced him to pretend they were the only relationship that existed. 

How It All Ends: 

• What if it really was a Bear Den and he just got attacked by bears and that's how the show ended? 
• And the dramatic live event was the bear coming out on After The Final Rose and confessing that he did it? 

• Every Neil Lane ring: stone in a halo with diamonds all around it. 

• Every single one. 

• Okay let's just get to it. I'm not re-capping all of this "thinking whilst I stare into the snow" shots. 

• I will say, that's a great looking suit on him. He pulled it off. Nice work. 

• WIPE YOUR TEARS, geez Louise. #hegetitfromhismama 
• Okay. First limo. Who's it gonna be?? 

• Oh no. Oh no no no no no. 

• Oh this is gonna be terrible. 
• Wow. I'm heartbroken for her. 

• Nick you asshole, Kaitlyn let you go through your whole speech and you DRAGGED HER for it. Don't do the same thing to Raven. This is cruel. 

• You bastard. You are horrible for letting her get this far down the rabbit hole with you. 

• CORRECT. You have been. You awful awful person. 
• Wipe your tears and stop acting like such a damn martyr. Clean your face up you piece of shit. 
• Raven, honey, you won by not having to marry Nick Viall. 

• Damn, she's classy. I'm so impressed. 
• I'm so uninvested in this proposal I could turn it off. 
• But I won't. Obviously. 

• Get those lashes OUT OF HERE. This speech sounds so scripted and gross. 

• Blah blah blah they get engaged, it's really phony and weird-feeling.

• "Let's go do it, literally." Classy, Vanessa, as ever. 
• They deserve each other. Equally gross, equal media-whores, equally disingenuous. 

AFTER THE FINAL ROSE. 

• How dare you assume that I'm wearing Spanx, fool? I am saddled up in my yoga pants eating cookeis with NO SHAME, friend. I don't need your BODY NORMATIVE ASSUMPTIONS, CHRIS. 

• TBH, pictures say 1,000 words. So let me just include some: 

• He looks genuinely terrible. Like, rumpled, hungover, and unhappy. 
• GAH she is classy as hell. Representing the South with 100% awesomeness and swag. 
• And she's going to Paradise. God bless her.
• Here are some more pictures that tell a very compelling, if not quite as happy, story: 

• ...oh. 
• This was the most awkward conversation. Chris deserves a raise for trying to get blood from this rock, because Nick looks like a prisoner being held against his will and Vanessa seems like an insane person and also kind of a bitch on wheels. It's a trainwreck. It's painful to watch. And Harrison knows it. 
• So to try and salvage what happened this season, he decides to just start a new season in hopes that we won't remember how horrifying this was! 

• Here are the guys we met tonight: 
• Mr. Started Strong and Got Weird: 

• Mr. Started Weird and Ended Weird: 

• Mr. White Person Who Made a Joke About Race:

• And Mr. The Best Ever: 

And with that, we draw this season to a close. 

Listen, folks, let's have some real talk for a moment (with some Corinne GIFs for illustration). 

Every season when I finish recapping the finale, I think to myself, "I'm not doing this again. This is a terrible show."

And this season may have been the worst yet. The network didn't even work hard at hiding the manipulation this year. The Rachel storyline, the forced relationship between Nick and Vanessa, the obvious reason that they announced Rachel so early (because Nick and Vanessa clearly are gonna break up in 3 weeks and they needed something else for us to focus on) - it all felt pretty infantilizing and gross. 

Even as I type this, I know I'll probably be right alongside you recapping Rachel's season (because she's clearly the best ever). But let's all enter into this with our eyes open, shall we? This is a SHOW. This is editing. In some cases (like tonight between Nick and Vanessa), this is acting. So let's laugh and hang together, but not be ABC's puppets. We're better than that, people. 

Okay, Bachelor Nation. That's all I got for The Most Awkward After The Final Rose EVER. 

Until the spring, my little cheese pastas.